Oh Amazing, Effectual Grace

I was 15 years old and a fairly new Christian in Chester, England. My father had just started a Church that was meeting in our home, and though growing, did not have any young people my age.

I loved the Sunday services taking place in the home, and yet, I had to admit, also craved fellowship with Christians my own age. I was seemingly the lone Christian in my class at High School and though I often shared the gospel with people, I sometimes felt the barrage as my school friends raised their objections. I felt the need to hang out with young people who shared my new faith in Christ. I managed to find a group of like minded people about 14 miles away in a little village called Little Neston.

After gaining permission from my parents, once a week I got on my bicycle and cycled to Little Neston to attend the group. Led by a wonderful Christian High School teacher named Mark Thomas, the group was hungry for God. As I recall, the group did not engage in the normal outside activities youth groups do. We just pursued God, wanting to know Him and His word more deeply.

Mark would prepare and lead us in Bible studies and would play his guitar as we worshipped the Lord, while others took turns on the only organ in the room, or percussion instruments that were always near at hand. The group was made up of young people from a number of churches in the area, but we all just dropped our denominational tags at the door, so to speak. All who came just wanted God. Once a month, our gatherings became all night prayer meetings (usually on a Friday night because there was no school the next day).

In one such gathering, a second adult couple came. The husband was an itinerant Methodist minister and the wife was an accomplished pianist (if I remember correctly).

Something unusual took place that night. In one of the times of silence as we were waiting on the Lord, the wife singled me out and said, “John, I am not going to say this is a word from God or anything, but as I was praying, a picture came to my mind about you…” I was a little taken aback. I had not met the lady before and did not know what to make of it. Apparantly, this was a one off for this lady too – she was not known to share anything of this kind.

She went on, “John, in my mind I saw a picture of a honeycomb – and over it was the word “Grace.”” She said, “I believe God is going to make you a preacher, known for grace. There will be intense opposition from people at times. Some will cover their ears not wishing to hear the gracious words that flow from your lips; while others will find in your words, some of the most grace filled words in God’s vineyard. God is going to use you mightily as one of His chosen vessels.”

Mark turned to me and said, “John, that is a very powerful picture. My advice to you is to just leave it with the Lord, and if it is something from Him, He will bring it to pass. Don’t worry about it. If it does not mean much to you now, perhaps it will one day.” Looking back, I think Mark gave me some very sound advice.

This meeting took place in the early 1980’s and to be honest, I completely forgot about it… that is, until one day recently. I was looking at the blog comments here and noticed words of thanks and appreciation and also comments filled with hostility and anger; people excited to read an article I’d written or hear a sermon I had preached, as well as people who had the exact opposite reaction. Then I looked at the top of the blog and noticed the words, “Effectual Grace.”

Then it hit me! The little picture this lady had 30 years before was being fulfilled right before my eyes. I felt peace flood my soul. I also felt that God was encouraging me that I was right in the purposes of God, right on track, being a voice for Him in sharing from the honeycomb, the honey being the message of the gospel of the grace of God in Jesus Christ.

Tears welled up in my eyes. I prayed, “Thank You God for lavishing me with such grace that You would choose me to be Your child, and to speak to others of Your great triumphant and effectual grace. How I love You Lord! Oh Amazing, Effectual Grace!”

If you love somebody…

In the context of business dealings and financial transactions, Jesus said, “For the sons of this world are more shrewd in dealing with their own generation than the sons of light.” (Luke 16:8) I think this principle of shrewd insight extends to many areas of life as the world stumbles upon truth. Man is made in the image of God and although much has been marred by the Fall, he is still able to think and come up with sound reasoning on many matters.

The people of the world may not be able to comprehend the amazing facets of the gospel, or see the wisdom and power of God in the cross of Christ (1 Cor 1:18-25), but they can make statements which are entirely accurate and true on a whole host of issues. For example, the unbelieving car mechanic may know a whole lot more about cars than you or I do. That is why, when my car is not working properly, I take it to him rather than a pastor. In fact, I dont even ask the mechanic if he is Baptist, Presbyterean or charismatic; nor do I ask for his views on end time events in the book of Revelation. His personal beliefs are immaterial to me. I simply ask him if he can find out what is wrong with the car and if he can fix it. Now after he finishes the job, along with my payment, I may well enclose a thank you note and a Christian tract sharing the gospel. I do care about his soul. However my point is that his personal beliefs play no role at all in determing whether or not I hire him to fix my car.

There is a phrase, “If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours forever. If it does not, then it was never yours anyway.” I think that’s true. When it comes to parents with a wayward adult child, the sincere offer of friendship, or even matters of the heart and romance, I believe as the song says below, “you can’t control an independent heart.” While expressing your continued love and affection for the person, its very important to free them from any sense or feeling of imprisonment. Let them feel as if they can fly like a bird in the sky – and maybe one day, in the providence of God, they will fly back to you.

The singer Sting is no Christian, but I think he hit the nail on the head, so to speak, in this song (below). Concerning it, he once wrote, “This song was… an antidote to the brooding issues of control and surveilance that haunted ‘Every Breath You Take.’ Perhaps the highest compliment you can pay to a partner is ‘I don’t own you–you’re free.’ If you were to try to possess them in the obvious way, you could never appreciate them in the way that really counts. There are too many prisons in the world already.”

Here’s “If you love somebody… set them free”: